Live Custody Journal

This is my live custody journal that I want to post my thoughts, feelings & all that stuff. Thanks for coming along with me on this journey!

August 8, 2024

Date he filed custody paperwork.

How can the courts let someone that chose not to be involved in his son’s life, has never supported him and rarely ever bothered to check on him and constantly denied him- how can they allow this piece of crap sorry excuse of a father (if you could even call him that) how do they allow someone like this to file a custody complaint? A custody complaint for a child that he barely knows. Does not know what size clothes or shoes he currently wears and does not have a clue what school this child attends. Someone please explain this to me because he is a DEADBEAT!

I have been the sole parent and provider for my son since he’s been two months old. I have done everything and worked my a$$ of doing multiple jobs at whatever hour just to make sure my son has what he needs and doesn’t miss out or feel left out. And now after almost seven years of his existence he can come in and just file for custody.

He was also ordered to pay child support beginning on 6/1/24 and has yet to make a single payment towards any that. Yet he can somehow miraculously find the $270 needed to file his complaint? WOW!!!!!!!!!! So who cares if your son needs stuff or anything right, let him spend his money and whatever makes things easier for him because that is the only person that matters in his life. AWESOME!!!

2/10/25

I found out about this custody case when I received a letter in the mail about intent to default which was confusing to me because I wasn’t involved in any court case, so I thought.

Apparently my ex had a process server serve me which never happened and I have proof of that but nonethless I couldn’t hide from this case since it is about my son. So I drafted my answer and turned it in.

I spent weeks learning and studying how to prepare and submit my answer to the courts and I’m in schock that I was successfully able to pull it off. Now I’m only hoping that the judge agrees or sees my points and acts accordingly but we’ll have to wait and see for the trial to happen.